Your H doesn’t realize right now how much damage he is doing to his relationship with the kids. All you can do right now is to be there for your kids. And you need to be strong. I realized that my son was very hurt by our separation with my H, and he didn’t want to talk about it. So, I stopped talking and making sarcastic comments about H. I try to be positive around my son and it helps our relationship with him. I know that it is easy said than done, especially since your kids are still leaving with you. Try to keep your conversations light.
Limbo, thank you for your kind words and support. I do hope that one day my H realizes what he is missing. I just hope it is not too late.
I did have a good day today. Went for yoga in the morning, and then later met my GF for dinner.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
