I'm so happy everything worked out as well as it did! To have everyone "acting as if" is what she needed to feel comfortable. Thinking about the future (putting in a pool before next summer) is what we like to hear from our MLCers.

The card that she gave you is also positive. Don't worry about her having to take a break, she was probably a bit overwhelmed and needed time to process all that happened. We all know that it's good when they do that!

Keeping you and your family in my prayers. Keep doing what you're doing. Relaxed and casual always seems to work with my h. It takes the pressure off and lets them know that you're not angry or upset and that you're accepting them just as they are. I've also found that letting them talk without making comments other than to validate works very well for me when dealing with my h.

Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama