My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

[tadpole1025]

She thinks her sons aren't attending her wedding for fear their father (you) might be planning something stupid? That would REALLY tick me off if I were you.

It did.

If your sons aren't going, why don't you do something with them?

We kicked it at home and hung out and played some games together on the computer. S20's GF and S18's friend came over and spent the weekend. I am pretty close to them and it was nice having them here.

Tad, you know way to much about what is going on there. That's part of the problem. If you knew less, you'd be better off.

Yeah. The boys need to stop telling me things.

but MLCers can be very emotionally abusive, and it isn't necessarily healthy for anyone to have more than polite and limited contact with that.

Very true too. My X hasn't been really emotionally abusive to them but has started yelling or will even hang up on them if they tell her something that she does not want to hear.

Blabbering......

X is now married as of yesterday. F*ck. Yesterday was bad, but not as bad as I had expected. Unfortunatley, today is a little worse. Just feeling really down. I feel like I've aged ten years in two days.

I have to wonder what his family and her familly thought when not a single one of her sons were there. Of course, that was probably blamed on me and they probably believed any lie that she told them.

I am growing REALLY tired/disgusted/fed up/discouraged about everything. I really hate the whole situation and just wish it would all go away. Feeling stuck again.

My last 4 Father's Days:

2010 - Wife makes a great dinner and we watch movies as a family. She tells me how blessed she is.

2011 - She tells me what a miserable father/husband/person I am.

2012 - She gets engaged and tells the boys.

2013 - She gets married the day before.

I sometimes wonder if she is doing it on purpose.

My blind date this last Friday went well. We had a nice Mexican lunch and went to bowl a few games. She is a pretty good bowler and gives me a run for my money.

She called me today and wants to get together again soon. I probably will see her again later this week.

Tad