Hi maji, I feel so sad reading your posts as I completely understand how you feel. It is so difficult when the spouse is so distant and withdrawn. As for what you said about your H complaining you ignored him when you are on the Internet but yet he wants space, I get the frustration too. Cadet wrote on my post to keep up the db and that it will work as who wouldn't want to be with someone who has changed for the best through db.
