MLC by MIL death/daughter car accident/new job

[Live4myDay]

Thanks for sending that. It makes me wonder though...I really think my H is a WAS. Although all the MLC that initiate it are there. I just feel so hopeless. I love this man and my family and now that it has totally changed I don't know how to deal with it or rather him.

He was with our friends (his best friend) that were with us on our wedding when we eloped and actually spent our honeymoon with them camping. Told my D he had a great nite. I wondered if he thinks of me while with them and see's them and their family together with their kids and miss what we had. I'm sure he told them all about his trip to Europe with OW. or do they just appease him. Look how happy he is now...

I text him happy fathers day. and that I miss hearing the kids say "hey Dad..." all i got was a "thanks" back. Which is fine I didn't even expect that. I'm learning NO expectations.

I have to write an email to him and my FIL and my parents explaining my thoughts on an upcoming move. A big change in my D and in my life. Moving about 3 hours away and her going to a new recovery program. My H did ask my D for my opinion...never asked me directly. I'll write it today. I will keep it very positive and GAL. I want to come across as confidant, happy, and excited for the change.

If there are any thoughts on WAS vs MLC for my situation I would appreciate the comments. I know this will probably take years...so in the mean time, I want to learn and grow and be prepared to handle those years ahead. If we even get that far. I don't think I can ever give up on him.