Hang in there, Rkyfat. You've been amazingly patient so let yourself feel fed-up bit just don't make any decisions right now.

Is your wife comparing her lot to that of others who are getting more benefits? Tell us more about her moaning if that helps get it off your chest. I imagine that it won't be hard for you to go a bit dim on her for now.

I look forward to hearing more from you and send you strength do deal with all the annoying people in your life smile

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012