GM, You sound much better today. Enjoy the calm before the storm, so to speak. I'm sure he'll be spitting once he received the offer letter. He's just simmering away for now. I am hoping he'll accept the offer so that you both can move forward.
You are very wise in knowing that you most likely will have a few more cycles along the way.
Enjoy your day! You've earned it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.