reb, it is difficult sometimes to keep the PMA, but it's something you should do. It beats the alternative, that's for sure. I'm still new to this (only three months since my problems really came up) and for the last couple of weeks I've just been smiling, staying on an even keel and not letting what my W says bother me -- even if down inside it does.
Congrats on the graduation!
Me 47 W 44 T 17 years, M 15 years D13, D10 March 2013 -- broke a trust/cheated late May 2013 -- W spoke of separation for first time June 2013 -- began reading DB
