"worried about stress level creeping back in" it will creep back in. Being parents to young kids is fabulous but as we all know at times can be stressful...I too did all the talking for my S. This is one of my 180. My H also put up those walls. I have the same concerns as you. Really need to read up myself on piecing. I have been here before in Feb. when H moved back home for 2 weeks. All seemed great to me. H was still struggling with inner turmoil. Have asked what is different this time around..As for me, I think H noticed my GAL. noticed how happy and busy kids and I were. We've got a lot of work to do.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13