Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[hotwheelsaust]

Ok, then we agree that while still separated then ok to have the family on Facebook, but, and hopefully not, if divorced then they are gone.
SIL is a very stabbing in the back type of person, I have known this for the 25 years I have known her. More than likely she is helping the W for her own agenda.
The quotes were in the open for the S18 to see. More than likely he has heard and seen everything that the W, SIL and rest of family have talked about. I know, it's not good.

But it was not your W doing it so cut the noise, ignore it.

That is one of the things I keep thinking about: the W was not the one who didn't invite me to the FIL party, also the W didn't put the quotes up on the wall. Therefore I cannot blame or fault the W for any of those things.