Originally Posted By: Hadlee58

Am I too far gone that its time to give up?

It's never too far gone/time to give up unlrss you want to.

How can I make her see the good times?

You don't. Don't try to convince her that her present feelings are wrong.

How do I work around her friends all giving her advice to move on?

You don't. You keep your nose out of her life with her friends. Ignore them and work on yourself.

How do I handle these next 3-4 weeks in the same house? My heart is broken!

Of course it is. You HIDE IT. She doesn't care right now. Play it cool, and she may come around, IN TIME.

I have offered to sleep on the sofa which I am, is this coming across as I would do anything? Do I need to toughen up?

Do not offer to leave your bed. If you already did, reclaim it. (I did this)


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl