Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks stilllookingup, I have been thinking about getting off Facebook, but it still is an important part of my contact with friends, and I don't want to delete the family yet. Thankfully the whole family use facebook rarely.
Maybe the family is just doing what they think is best for the W, but my truthful feeling is that they have simply walked away from me. The SIL a while ago, mentioned that no one contacted her ex husband at the time of separation and then divorce, so why would the W's family contact me. Way talk about kicking you where it hurts. Then when the W was staying with the SIL last holidays, the SIL printed up a lot of nasty quotes about divorcing the spouse, and put it in the W's room.
I am only holding on to being nice and polite with the family while the separation is on going. If we divorce I will have no contact with the family at all.