Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

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I know it hurts but your W's family is her family before you. I really think they are just trying to do what they think would be best for her. Idk if she's telling them to leave you out or not but even if she wasn't, I'd still think her family wouldn't do anything that might upset her.

I've been goin dark since separation and I haven't logged in to fb for a month now. FB really brings LBS down and I know I've read a Vet saying somewhere the first GAL and detachment you can do is to go off FB. And I've realized I do so much better and enjoy GAL-ing web I don't have to worry about FB world. Plus it makes everyone think how I've been up to and I think it's a good thing for me.

Hang in there. The first few weeks after going dark is te hardest I know because I've passed the phase.