Need advice--thinking about taking a R temperature check...
Is this a bad idea? I just don't know where I'm at with us. I think I'm getting closer to dropping the rope and I don't want to have any regrets. I know 18 months is not forever for a MLCer so ....?
Yes, bad idea. I don't think there are very many times that a temperature check is helpful. If he was drawing closer to you, you'd know it. If he is not, then asking will only hurt you.
I agree with the excellent advice tori gave to you.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
