Thanks Alf and lovethehub.. well, the talk did not happen! So I guess it is back to Limbo-Land. Neither one of us started any sort of discussion.. so I guess here we go around again.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.