Bluedown, I can fully identify with your uneasiness. I'm fairly new to this but in my situation it would defininitely turn my H heart further away. IMO it would be better at this time to focus on the changes you can make for yourself. I just began a thread & you're welcome to become acquainted w/ my sitch..Its tough; getting tougher. ((((hugs)))
H;30 M;31 M9yr D9 D7 D3 H EA 2009 EA 11 Me PA 2012 H-ILYBNIL 5/13 in EA maybe PA