I don't know if you already had your talk or not but what I found to be very helpful when H and I finally had our first talk was listening, validating how he felt and explaining how I understood his feelings. I did not discuss my feelings or needs at all, just gave him what he needed.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13