Thanks Bright. I never thought of it that way. I know h has been spending lots of time this last week with JW. It just upsets me so much that H is actually looking for support from her. But you are absolutely right...I need to be drama free. I have really been trying to be as nice as I can be and listen to H when he is here. I can't tell you the comfort you gave me with your advice. Thank you so much my friend. Do you want to know something crazy that H just did?? I know H is with JW right now. H has been texting me the last half hour or so pretty much looking for support and encouragement because H says he is so stressed out and that is why he has been sick. What??? Why not ask JW for help since you are there?? I have been so worried that H is getting everything he needs from JW as far as emotional support and such. So do you think maybe H isn't get everything he is looking for from JW??
Both son and daughter still live at home. My son is sort of torn on where he stands with H. He was so very close with H and they had a really good relationship. My son knows exactly how his sister feels about H and he can see how much I am hurting and what H has done. I feel bad for my son because he feels like he needs to be loyal to his sister and protect my feelings. I told him that he needs to act how he feels and whatever he chooses is fine. That no matter what H will always be his dad and that he loves him. The worst part is that I know my son has lost ALL respect for his dad and that is soo sad. I don' t care how old your kids are they are still hurt so much.
Good luck with your yard work. I am done for today. Thanks again for the eye opener. It really helped. Have a good night!
