Prayers are coming your way, Mtnman. I'm sure that she's a little anxious about tomorrow but you know will help her feel at ease so she'll do fine.
I haven't read through your entire thread so I can't offer up much in the way of advice but wanted to let you know that someone is out here praying with and for you both.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama