WH, I agree that our sitch’s are kind of unique. I’ve also been searching for similar sitch’s and was not able to find much. I think my H is both MLC and WAS. His MLC seems to be mild though, compared to others. He is not treating me bad, he just doesn’t communicate. But, there are still some things that make me think that he still has some MLC. All I can do now is to be patient and let him go through this on his own. He might decide to come back, but I’m not holding much hope right now. He is very stubborn. Also, I think he is not in a PA right now. I don’t know if this helps or, on the opposite, slows down my sitch. He is still looking for that perfect relationship, and until he discovers the reality, he will continue to string me along.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state