Hoping for WAS to come home

[JaxFL14]

Well I felt like a finally got to show my W that I have changed a bit today. A big problem she had was my family that lives near us. Always wanting us to come over for any party, get together, on and on. Even though I had done a good job of changing that over the last two years cause I knew she didn't like it. Well today was my nieces 1st birthday party. Well I had committed to going boating with my best friend, his wife, daughter and my 3 boys. Much to the dismay of my family. Well my W asked me today why I wasn't at the party cause she had seen a pic I posted of the boys and I on the boat. I simply said because I wanted to go boating instead. She said "gasp, James!!!, you rebal. Who even are you?"
I said, someone who does what he wants too, not what others what him to do. And left it at that. She didn't respond but I think it def struck her as different. It at least made me feel good about it.