Mer--AMAZING feedback from A. Give her a hug for me!
Here's my 2 cents worth:
There is one BIG thing that we've neglected to mention in the forum about the WAS getting the best of both worlds.
The fact is it is not true.
The WAS is carrying around luggage that contains a different set of difficulties than ours, and it would do well to find compassion instead of judgement.
The biggest weight in that luggage is guilt, which is probably not among the top 5 of our own baggage...
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."