And so the piecing begins.....

[Tryin2figuritout]

KD....thanks for checking in....things are going well. Last night my wife told me she feels like I'm holding back on moving to reconciling, which was a great discussion because I am only to try and give her time. This is great because: a) she told me her feelings about me holding back and b) I got to express my concern for moving too fast.

When she first told me about wanting to try, we moved really quick into many discussions that weekend like who's house we'd keep, what to do with having to sell furniture, etc., planned a quick summer trip. Just basically jumping back in it too quick because she put a halt on it later that week (discussion, not trying).

Our biggest concern going into this is not as much about us, but about not confusing our kids. Trying to do that with as little impact to them as possible. We also know it still might not work, so again not wanting to give them the idea that we're all a big happy family together and then it doesn't work.

Thanks again for checking in and hope you have a great weekend.