Yesterday, H didn't even say hello when he came back. He just nodded when I said hello. Sigh.... More and more silence every day. To think that 3 weeks ago, we were still joking and chatting on holiday. I'm feeling discouraged. It seems that the more I keep quiet and pull back, the more distant and sullen he gets!
One of his complaints was that I ignored him when I get hooked on the Internet. So I'm caught in a catch-22: a) give him space = more of the same; b) initiate conversation = pressure or pursuit. Help, somebody....
I'm trying to detach but it's frustrating not knowing how to respond to his non- response or one-word answers. Again, he only started behaving this way in the last 2 weeks, after OW left.
