Letting Go & Moving Forward 2

[littleGTO]

Thanks, bustin, Tori and newman, for posting!

Tori, you are absolutely right about my interactions w H yesterday. About his request for me to call the cell phone co. I should have just said "okay," and left it at that, but I know my tone changed when he brought that up. I immediately knew I slipped up.

The cell phone co says they need my permission(since my name is on the acct) to remove his number to set up a new account. I won't set up the acct, only give the co. my okay for him to switch to his own===I know, weird.

I'll do this tomorrow as I don't want him thinking I was stalling on his request for any reason.

Need advice--thinking about taking a R temperature check before H goes on his trip w boys & I go on mine w SIL. I am really feeling the need to know what he's thinking & where's he's at, esp concerning OW.

It will have been a year on Tuesday since first BD & probably a year and a half since his involvement w OW (EA). I think knowing if he's moved forward w his R w OW and still waiting for her to be D'ed, will be useful information for me to sit on during my trip.

Is this a bad idea? I just don't know where I'm at with us. I think I'm getting closer to dropping the rope and I don't want to have any regrets. I know 18 months is not forever for a MLCer so ....?