"I Love you but love her too"....WHAT?

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Snodderly, your story about your h is so funny. The neighbor must have been laughing. Great idea to unplug the garage door opener. If my h comes and gets his car, I'll have to remember that. His car is parked in the slot next to mine which has the double door. Hmmm, I may have to scramble the combination.

I read somewhere in archives that your h had an obession about a plastic egg? What was that all about? Does he still check in with you now and then? His ow has cancer, right? Are you worried that if something happens to her that he'll be back at your doorstep?

It's been quiet tonight. No calls, no texts. I think he's trying to make his house a little more comfortable. He's a creature of habit and lately doesn't deal with change very well. I wonder how long it will be before he's back looking for more creature comforts to try to make himself feel "normal".

Today I started moving some of my clothes into the space that he created in the closet when he bagged up his clothes to move. I'm also making a few changes to the furniture and of course the bedroom from which he took the bed. Along with all of my other committments, I'm busier than I want to be but it's good for me and keeps my mind from wandering to the not so pleasant part of my life.

I spent part of yesterday and some of today in the gardens transplanting and dividing plants. H and I spent months and months designing and planting when we first moved in so it brought back some very fond memories. H mentioned coming over to help me keep up with it so he must have forgotten that he hired someone to take care of the yard and lawn. Maybe he plans on cancelling the service and doing it himself. It's very theraputic for him to work with his hands and I'm sure he'll miss it.

I do hope that your h and eventually mine will learn not only never to p^ss us off but that facing their issues head on would have been a whole lot easier.