But I have come to the realization that these scripts are self preservation mechanisms for the WAS. For whatever the reason they finally have chosen to leave, they build these massive walls to protect themselves. They can not let themselves feel any positive emotions for you, otherwise it may derail their initial intentions...or even stop them from moving forward with what they feel is the right thing at the time.
If I am wrong, please one of the former WAS's on here correct me.
Weeellllll, as a former WAW, I don't know if I can correct you but I can tell you I never felt that I was on a path I couldn't/didn't want to be derailed from. I only know that I felt I had done everything possible to try and get our relationship back on track prior to "walking away"/having an A
Please understand, a WAW feels they have done everything they can to get the R back on track and that the other person doesn't want to fix the R. To put it in these words, it sounds like the WAW is completely unreasonable and is acting this way for no reason. YOU are the reason they are a WAS (sorry, it's true).
I guarantee you the WAS tried to get your attention prior to you being here. That is no longer the issue. The issue now is, what can YOU do to fix it?
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
