One thing you & your ex have going for you is that you both have found recovery. She has spent the past 2 years also working on herself and her program.
Whatever your relationship becomes even as friends it wil be a truer more honest reflection of yourselves.
Enjoy each day
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13