B, You've come a long way! You've developed self confidence and look how you reacted to the error in which area you where suppose to be. That's wonderful!
I would venture to say that your h is the reason his lawyer fees are so high. He's not listening to anything his lawyer is telling him and yes, his lawyer knows a fool when he sees one. After all, they see plenty of them every day and know which ones are dumb enough to continue jerking spouses around.
He needs a mirror because I would bet he's the one that's dragging this out and not wanting to cooperate w/you. Too bad, it is what it is and he's going to face the consequences of his actions.
I'm sorry you were emotional, but that's okay. The judge and baliff were able to see that our h's empathy chip was broken. It's all about him.
I hope the weekend is better for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
