LF, you cannot come from a place of so much anger and hatred and expect to make progress. Stop waiting for your wife to make a change and come back to you. Stop blaming her GF, she wasn't forced into that relationship.
You will not R your M, or make any personal progress, until you work on yourself and grow as a person. You are full of blame and anger.
What role did you play in the demise of your M? What do YOU need to work on to be the best person you can be, whether in your M, for yourself or for a future R?
When you figure out what role you played, you will be able to grow and be prepared for a better R.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
