You'll get your opportunity to say that about his house and nice setting. Trust me, he'll say something about you living in your house again.
Love the key deal. My xh tried his keys and they didn't work. He tried the garage door opener on our detached garage and it didn't work. Why? Because I unplugged it and he didn't have an opener for my side. My neighbor said he said on his deck and watched him, just knowing xh couldn't get in. He said the show was worth the time and popcorn to watch.
Oh, well...one day they'll learn (hopefully).
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.