Thanks BrightFuture, I do feel good about myself, but like you said, it is just such a unique sitch we both seem to have. She is neither a MLC or WAW, and while I can only still do the same things as per DB, it still puts a lot of my life in limbo. Basically like yourself, all I can do at this stage of my life is show patience, and new better me (be the man only a fool would leave) and taking care of me.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
