Your comment on being afraid of success made me think of the conversation that Betsey and I had the other day while I was at home with S.
As we pursued the notion of my own stingray being afriad of success, my friend A directed me to this website. I posted some of it, but not all becuase many of the things said here were how to help YOURSELF and we all know I can't help Sting FOR him...he has to do it. Anyway, take a look...it might help you!
