Alf, by working to be a better person, and taking care of yourself only makes you a better parent to your children, to think otherwise is ridiculous. Stay strong and hang in there!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.