She knew about ACOA. She most likely knows about Alanon. I dropped out of ACOA because it wasn't about recovery to me. It was a pity party. So I don't know her perspective. From outside looking in it might look that I dropped out and then started again when we had problems. That isn't the reality. Unfortunately me and her don't talk Bond at all. That is her choice. I do once in awhile try to engage.
