Hey ALF,

Please do your best to stay strong. My W filed last month and my divorce will be final July 12. Just continue to be the best Dad you can be to your kids. This is the only thing that keeps me going most weeks is the fact that i am not going to be alone. We always have our kids, and we need to be strong in front of them no matter how scared and hurt you are felling right now.

Kids have an amazing way to bring a smile to your face when you are feeling your lowest.

I don't necessarily feel like i am DB'ing anymore, but rather i am trying to let her go and let her make this journey on her own.

Take care of yourself and your kids and let her realize what she is missing out on by becoming the best person you can be.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13