Still Struggling and need help #4

[TSquared2]

Here's a quote I grabbed from labug on another thread...

Keep your side of the street clean.

[CharlieBrown]

Thanks RH and T. Not snooping is SOOO important to my PMA. I know that what I found snooping put me in such a poor mood that it put a negative feeling on the "surprise date" that W had set up a few weeks ago, for example. And yes, I'm sure she can tell when something is up with me, just like I can tell something is up with her. And, I do need to move on from tat-boy, I know that. She is likely still obsessed, but me knowing that hasn't helped so far, it has just made her more secretive. That isn't helpful.

Planning a date night for tomorrow night, need to focus in on the good.

CB

[reachingHigher]

My MC said it this way. When you do a certain action and it stirs up negative feelings inside you, you then want to look at not doing that action in the future.

Sigh. If only I always listened to wise words of advice.

What are your plans for date night?

[CharlieBrown]

So true RH, great advice!

We are going to a restaraunt that has an outdoor seating area on the Mississippi. They have a wonderful wine selection and great cheese plate, so our date will be to sit outside for a couple hours, just us!

CB

[reachingHigher]

That sounds lovely, CB!

[reachingHigher]

Just don't ask for the "R talk Merlot" !!

[RosaLinda]

"Not snooping is SOOO important to my PMA."

Mine too, CB. It brings nothing but pain. Have a fun date tonight!

[CharlieBrown]

Fortunately I am not a Merlot guy .

I will also not ask for the Tat-boy Zin (known for it's poor taste) and will instead lean towards the PMA Cabernet, known for giving off a good vibe to all that come in contact with it!

CB

[RosaLinda]

[RosaLinda]

So....how was date night? Hope you had a nice Fathers Day too!