Well, first off, this is new. You were very angry with him only a 3-4 days ago. My first suggestion would be to slow down. I don't know what you all discussed the last time.
1. What are your boundaries? Example. In order for my H to live here, no OW, hands over phone records & passwords. If he does have contact, he must tell me. No lying. Helps with kuds, etc. all things I had figured out I needed for me.
2. Have you discussed him moving in, or are yomight king he might? My H and I discussed him moving back in for over a month, and he had started to show a completely different (nice & helpful) attitude towards me & was showing up when he said he would for the kids a month prior to us even discussing it. I think since you have done this before, taking it slow and really discussing things is very important.
How did him moving back last time happen? What were your boundaries then? Had you started your 180s?
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
