Let my love open the door...

[reachingHigher]

The whole exchange seemed like he was fishing for something from me, but what???

I'm just rereading your posts from last night.

Perhaps OW is the one fishing?

I'm wondering/guessing/mind reading here. Not s'posed to do that, I know, but....

OW looked frumpy. Tvs looked hot.

OW is unhappy/grumpy. Tvs gets an award in front of a lot of people.

OW is obviously not putting her heart & soul into her family like tvs does.

OW probably doesn't have an exercise routine. Tvs does yoga.

OW doesn't have anything to be proud of. No reason to hold her head high. She is doing something she KNOWS is wrong. She used to badmouth others doing it. And she feels Tvs's H pulling away. All she has to cling to is this crumbling fantasy of a R.

I think...well...OW was badmouthing you, tvs, and H was seeing if it was true. If you'd take the bait. If he could catch you in doing something wrong to see if OW is right.

My H has grilled me similarly after MIL's accusations.

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Tvs, you just keep taking the high road.

One day, your H will start to heal and recognize the treasure that has been there all along. And if he doesn't ... then you don't want him anyway.

Hope your day is going well
rH