RT, it seems that the convo went well. The only thing I would caution you about is pressuring W or temp checking about coming home. That introduces pressure and W is conflicted enough as it is. My suggestion is for you to lay back and go dark until W initiates contact with you. The reason is two-fold:
1) It will allow W to sift through your convo and through her emotions 2) W will miss you and will seek you out when you go dark
The question about "will you come home" seems to come from your desperation for W to turn to you and work on the M now because you want this pain to stop. I totally get that. Yet, for many WASes with OP, it takes several loops back and forth before they make the final break from the OP. Be prepared for this, sweetie.