Okay, I said earlier I would post my goals for today. Here they are: (revised due to some craziness of today)
1: Have my PMA firmly in place when H picks me up from work (our daycare person had an emergency, so H has the car and the S!) Express sympathy if he is frustrated with our S (taking him to work will be hard, because the shop isn't really baby-proofed). Validate him if he mentions having a hard day. Overall, be positive, loving, sympathetic, and validating.
2: Make something easy for dinner, so I can catch up on dishes - my Flylady deal for the kitchen is that I do all the dishes we use during the day, then spend 15 minutes on the dish backlog -thought there isn't much of one anymore!
3: Do my zone mission in our room, a room rescue in S's room, and my 15-minute living room declutter.
4: Take a long, hot bubble bath and RELAX!!!
5: Go to bed early, and don't get up or call H after I tuck myself in.

I can do these.
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.