She might also be trying to equalize your relationship somehow. After all, for years, she was the partner who had it together and took primary care of your kids while you were struggling with an addiction. It might be that she resents your recovery because it throws into sharp relief how much you weren't present for the vast majority of your marriage.


Me: 30
H: 29
M: 2 yrs
T: 5 years
BD: 12/14/12
Divorce talk begins 1/6/13
I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since