Thanks AJ. The accepting and totally letting go are both so hard. It is amazing to me that people can change so much and so quickly. And become so bitter towards someone that they supposedly cared so much about.

Yes, Mesa is in the same metro area. It's kind of like Los Angeles/Anaheim.

Well, as of tonight, 3 of our 4 sons have told XW that they are not going to the wedding. Son #4 told her that he is thinking about not going as well. The funny/sad thing is, she told them that they are probably backing out not because they think what she did is wrong, but because "you're father is probably planning something stupid."

My God. So so sad.

What the Hell happened to her?

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13