Gobbling the chill pills in a Cookie-Monsterish way...
You're right on the money as usual, Bets.

But thank you for saying out loud that it's okay for him to be himself (I know it sounds stupid that I just don't get that). I need to be told evey once in a while that things are OKAY!

*breathe, breathe* This is just me, needing to accept my sweetie for who he is, rather than trying to squeeze him into a skin that doesn't fit him. I do love him very much, and I know he loves me.

You guys don't think I should leave the bb since he's come home, do you? I feel like my issues are kind of...trivial compared to what some other people are dealing with.

Hugs and thank you,
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.