He says he's doesn't want to be an a-hole by filing and is waiting for me to accept it.He hasn't really even brought it up, it has been me asking him why he hasn't made any move toward it and he just says he's waiting for me to accept it.
We were still doing things as a family on weekends and holidays. We even went out together for drinks twice and twice with friends during the last year although I still got the impression he didn't want to work on the marriage.
He says he doesn't mind doing things as a family for our children's sake but that doesn't explain doing things with me. I told him on Mother's Day that I couldn't keep on like this and so he left that day instead of having the day as a family.
I guess I really don't know where we stand and that's my confusion and dilemma.
