Your H is confused. His actions don't match his words--he's frequently coming over and seeking you out. And, yes, he is saying that he is done b/c he's trying to convince himself of this. Maybe, he thinks, this is the key to his happiness...only he will eventually realize it is NOT.
And, the nicer you are the harder it will be for him to convince himself.
Father's day was also kind of a big deal w us. This year the kids are giving him a card & that's it. He probably will spend the day w his dad, which is good b/c this is his dad's first F.D. w/o his wife.
Yard work is good for the soul, I've decided. Take a tiny little piece of your yard at a time and conquer the weeds. It is so liberating. You actually might feel a little stronger, a little more in control, and a little more in touch w you.
Take care, Limbo. THis is NOT easy.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
