Another change Im making... not telling anyone cept my attorney and the lucky members of this forum what H's daily antics are...
This evening he decided to come home.... rummage through the kitchen, (I call it the GF shopping) taking whatever he chooses. My attorney still hasnt gotten back to me in regards to the checking account, and now hes just taking whatever he wants out of the house. He came to my room, KNOCKED and actually waited for me to answer the door. I was pleasant but short. He was looking for his GFs stuff.
I didnt follow him out... waited til I thought he was gone and went downstairs. He came back in the house, and asked about his mail. I told him I put it in his room, then he accused me of taking some of it. I just said, "ok." As he walked away he stated, "Im NOT moving out, just so you know." I said, "ok." pleasantly. I got a cup of ice, and he went into the living room to look for more things to take. As I went upstairs, he was in his room taking socks and underware. I went upstairs without a word.
I was shaking when I got upstairs... the GF apparently had a list of things she wanted, but he didnt take any of the stuff that is actually hers with him. Infuriating!! I had to really exert some control to not say, "Thats not GFs!" But, I did it.
M:42 H:40 T: 18yrs M: 14yrs Open R/M: 18 years D19 S24 From PM 1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08 H BD, separated 5/9/13 Filed for S on 6/12/13 H committed to monogamous GF now