Dazed--Your observations aren't bad, guy.... quite the contrary. But what I was hoping to convey is the fact that Myrrh already has difficulty reining in her anger without us adding stuff to her pile.
I do see that you're interested in what's happening... and as I said before, I don't want to discourage you from posting to any of us! Please feel free to jump into my pool any time you wish!
Meredith and I have been coaching Myrrh on her anger management and responses--when they are favorable, her H comes running to her. When she goes after him (which we call "eating fish"), he runs away.
My point in drawing the solution part of the equation is knowing that we all have issues with our spouses--just visit any thread and you can see!
So feel free to jump in, Dazed. A man's POV is welcome to all of us!
Thanks for visiting!
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
