Hi Jax. I am in a similar situation with my H (You can look at my posts) and I've been doing this for 15 months!!
I will say that I would not want to go back to the old marriage we had, but would definitely want to make it a fulfilling marriage for both of us. I have also been able to look at myself and see that I think I lost a part of me throughout the marriage. I am now doing things that I would not have done before so this is a positive.
