Dazedboy - Big hugs for you. It wasn't your fault - when I posted that, I was VERY mad, so I know it came off a lot more negative than it was. If nothing else, you made me redefine things for myself, which helped a LOT. So - honesty is always okay - at least for the most part. You didn't hurt my feelings, just made me look at things in a different way, which is GOOD. That said, I think I'm going to hunt up your thred so I can give you a hug there. Thanks again, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.